The Silent Wars How Long Does Each Zodiac Sign Hold a Grudge

In the cosmic dance of the zodiac, each sign wields its own unique personality traits and, unfortunately, its own method of conflict resolution—or lack thereof. Ever wondered how long the ego clash between your Aries friend and that Taurus colleague could last? Or how patient a Libra might be when things get tense with an impulsive Leo? Here's a peek into the silent wars that can ensue, with the average time each zodiac sign might hold a grudge.

Aries (March 21 - April 19)

Average Cold War Duration: 1-3 days

Aries, the fiery Ram, might be the first to throw a punch in an argument, but their fuse is also the shortest. Once the initial heat dissipates, Aries can recover quickly and move on. It’s the briefest of cold wars, often resolved by a spontaneous apology or a sincere gesture of reconciliation.

Taurus (April 20 - May 20)

Average Cold War Duration: 5-7 days

Taurus is known for its stubbornness, and when it comes to holding a grudge, they're like a bull in a china shop. It takes a few days for them to cool off, but once they do, Taurus can be surprisingly forgiving. A heartfelt apology and a little patience are usually all it takes to mend fences.

Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

Average Cold War Duration: 3-5 days

The twins Gemini can be fickle in their emotions, and their cold war is no exception. They might seem to have moved on quickly, but the underlying resentment can linger. A light-hearted conversation or a shared activity can help them forget the fight, often within a few days.

Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

Average Cold War Duration: 2-4 weeks

Cancer is the sign that values emotional connections the most, so when they hold a grudge, it’s often a deep-seated one. It can take weeks for them to forgive, especially if the hurt was personal. A genuine show of understanding and empathy is key to healing their wounded hearts.

Leo (July 23 - August 22)

Average Cold War Duration: 1-3 weeks

Leos are the kings and queens of the zodiac, and when they're upset, they can be like a lion in a corner. It might take a couple of weeks for them to calm down and reconsider their stance. A grand gesture or a heartfelt conversation can help them see the light and move past their anger.

Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

Average Cold War Duration: 1-2 weeks

Virgos are logical and often take their time to process emotions. A cold war with a Virgo might seem like it will drag on forever, but it usually lasts only a few weeks. A logical explanation and a sincere apology can go a long way in mending fences.

Libra (September 23 - October 22)

Average Cold War Duration: 3-5 days

Libra is the diplomat of the zodiac, striving for harmony at all times. Their cold wars are brief and often resolved with a diplomatic gesture. It might take a day or two for them to express their feelings, but they're usually over it quickly.

Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

Average Cold War Duration: 1-3 months

Scorpio is known for its intensity, and when it comes to holding a grudge, they can be the most stubborn. It might take months for a Scorpio to forgive, especially if they feel betrayed. They require a deep, heartfelt apology and time to heal before they can let go.

Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)

Average Cold War Duration: 1-2 weeks

Sagittarius is the free spirit, and when it comes to conflicts, they can be rather impulsive. A Sagittarius might hold a grudge for a couple of weeks, but their wandering mind will likely find other things to occupy it. A light-hearted approach or a change of scenery can help them move on.

Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)

Average Cold War Duration: 2-4 weeks

Capricorn is disciplined and focused on their goals, so when they hold a grudge, it's often a strategic one. It can take weeks for them to forgive, especially if the conflict threatens their plans. A practical approach and a clear apology are necessary for reconciliation.

Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)

Average Cold War Duration: 1-3 days

Aquarius is the sign of innovation and change, so their cold wars are often short-lived. They might hold a grudge for a day or two, but their curiosity will eventually get the better